Summary

I saw a really cool quick disconnect laser mount/adapter for sale for $200 that had both electric and air.
I thought it was the kind of thing that could be reverse engineered, so i gave it a go and saved $170.
3-pin 3A right angle POGO connectors off Amazon, some leftover 6mm magnets, some XH 2.54 3 pin connectors from Amazon, and some leftover 1.5mm hobby foam from walmart. I spent under $30, total.

Not gonna lie - I suck at soldering, but it worked out.

I need to find about 5" of 4mm tubing to connect the laser-side air, but the gasket connection is good.